How I work
"I have been nothing but euphoric after our sessions.
I have never felt more in control and more accountable to myself.
I feel a freedom I have never felt."
-Previous Client
I'm Emily
You know what turns me on? That singular moment when it all clicks into place for you. Your eyes widen and your face brightens. We’ve hit the point of no return.
As a Therapeutic Kink Practitioner, I will help you play with the things that turn you on and the things that you are ashamed that turn you on.
I will help you embrace those persistent patterns or situations in your life that leave you feeling confused. The secret? those are the hidden gems that unlock the pathway your ecstatic arousal and joy.
With over ten years in the sexual and reproductive health fields and two master’s degrees, I combine therapeutic modalities like Internal Family Systems, with BDSM, and aspects of tantra to guide you on a transformational journey into the deepest corners of your being.
I'm Emily
You know what turns me on? That singular moment when it all clicks into place for you. Your eyes widen and your face brightens. We’ve hit the point of no return.
As a Therapeutic Kink Practitioner, I will help you play with the things that turn you on and the things that you are ashamed that turn you on.
I will help you embrace those persistent patterns or situations in your life that leave you feeling confused. The secret? those are the hidden gems that unlock the pathway your ecstatic arousal and joy.
With over ten years in the sexual and reproductive health fields and two master’s degrees, I combine therapeutic modalities like Internal Family Systems, with BDSM, and aspects of tantra to guide you on a transformational journey into the deepest corners of your being.
Discounted Course
Meet Your Inner Dom
Embrace your authentic pleasure of
control, confidence and power
Perfect for beginner Doms or Submissives looking to strengthen their backbone
Pre-Recorded Course
Meet Your Inner Dom
Embrace your authentic pleasure of
control, confidence and power
Pre-Recorded Course
Meet Your Inner Dom
Embrace your authentic pleasure of
control, confidence and power
Free Pre-Recorded Course
Meet Your Inner Dom
Embrace your authentic pleasure of
control, confidence and power
Pre-Recorded Course
This work is for those:
Who are being called to explore Kink in a deeper way
Whose mind as begun to awaken, but their bodies linger behind
Who can see that pain is not a pathology but a passage
Who seek a deeper spiritual connection
Who are amidst a large life transition
Who are exhausted by a life full of masking
Who are ready to deepen into their desires, their bodies and their pleasure.
This work is for those:
Who are being called to explore Kink in a deeper way
Whose mind as begun to awaken, but their bodies linger behind
Who can see that pain is not a pathology but a passage
Who seek a deeper spiritual connection
Who are amidst a large life transition
Who are exhausted by a life full of masking
Who are ready to deepen into their desires, their bodies and their pleasure.
This work is for those:
Who are being called to explore Kink in a deeper way
Whose mind as begun to awaken, but their bodies linger behind
Who can see that pain is not a pathology but a passage
Who seek a deeper spiritual connection
Who are amidst a large life transition
Who are exhausted by a life full of masking
Who are ready to deepen into their desires, their bodies and their pleasure.
Listen to my Podcast!
Each week we get intimate with a new guest to explore their kinks and patterns as pathways to liberation.
This is a great example of what a first session with me looks like.
Let your kinks set you free
Services
I only play hard with those willing to work hard.
(Virtual and In-Person Available)
Introductory Session
The first call all new clients must experience. In this 60 minute call we will explore what you’re experiencing on a whole different level.
Virtual Packages
Distance makes the heart grow fonder. We meet in the virtual work to unpack, crack open and play.
In-person Packages
Step into my dungeon in Boulder, CO as we dive deep into what is holding you back from your most erotic life.
It's weird, surprising, playful, sexy, disarming
and at times terrifying.
What is Conscious Kink?
Conscious kink is acknowledging the potential kink has to be a gateway to incredible intimacy, self-development, discovery of the Mysteries of existence, ecstatic (and other) states of consciousness and profound love.
Testimonials
"When I met Emily I’d been suffering from major depressive disorder for 12 years. I had cycled through four therapists and even more pharmaceutical therapies. Emily's therapeutic insight, genuine care, energy, and steadfast support helped to lift me out of the long darkness. I am now on a path I had imagined impossible. I am capable of envisioning a future. Thank you, Emily."
Y.M
Previous Client, Male, 50's
With Emily's help, I have become much more attuned with my own body, and learned how its responses were holding me back from saying what I need and from being fulfilled in my relationships. This has made me much more confident in expressing my needs with my partner, but also has given me skills to help her let me know about her needs, and made me more resilient in hearing how I can better meet them. Emily has helped me become a much better partner in relationships, and I only wish I could have started learning these things decades ago.
A.S
Previous Client, Male, 50's
Emily brought deep empathy and insight into every interaction she had with me. She helped me see how certain ways I thought about myself were causing me pain and worked with me in reframing those ideas. She fostered trust and connection and provided me with accountability as I worked to make a better life for myself. My time with her has been transformational, and my path moving forward has been made better for having met her.
S.TAdam Sendler
Previous Client, Male, 50's