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July – October 2026

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Soul Kink

Soul Kink

A 4-Month Journey into
unapologetic Femme Freedom

There is a version of your life that expresses your gender and sexual desires with joyful confidence—free from shame, secrecy, or hiding

Through this 4-month cohort you’ll cultivate playfulness, authenticity, and grounded confidence while learning to own and communicate your desire.

You’ll do this in a sacred sisterhood who witness, hold, and celebrate one another. Its time for her to feel the belonging she deserves.

An Invitation From Emily

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Society doesn't make space for Men to explore their feminine.

We need a world that accepts all parts of you

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It is so absolutely stunning and amazing to really feel myself as Veronica. Was absolutely the best time I have had in a very long time.

-Veronica

What if Your feminine wasn't something to hide?

But was your guide to:

  • Cultivating friendships, partnerships and loverships that actually nourish you
  • Unlocking creative expression and play that fuel purpose and joy
  • Shedding the burden of shame and secrecy you've been carrying for so long
  • Learning self-care rituals and feminization practices that sustain resilience and ease
  • Embodied sensual presence and wild sexual adventures
  • Creating a life where responsibility and pleasure are both fully honored.

IS THIS FOR YOU?

THIS SPACE IS FOR YOU
IF yOU:

  • Were assigned male at birth and feel called to explore your feminine
  • Want depth, not just validation
  • Are curious about meaning, not just arousal
  • Value sisterhood over spectatorship
  • Are open to self-reflection and integration
  • Want to understand what's beneath the desire
  • Want to be better, not only for yourself but for your loved ones and community

This Space is NOT for you if YOU:

  • Want your inner life to exist only in your head or on a screen
  • Don't want to be honest with yourself or your loved ones about who you are and what you desire
  • Avoid the discomfort of self-inquiry
  • Have disrespectful, entitled, or boundary-pushing tendencies
  • Want to stay split or compartmentalized forever
  • Want your sexuality to be something you hide and hide from forever
Apply for your spot

IS THIS FOR YOU?

THIS SPACE IS FOR YOU
IF yOU:

  • Were assigned male at birth and feel called to explore your feminine
  • Want depth, not just validation
  • Are curious about meaning, not just arousal
  • Value sisterhood over spectatorship
  • Are open to self-reflection and integration
  • Want to understand what's beneath the desire
  • Want to be better, not only for yourself but for your loved ones and community

This Space is NOT for you if YOU:

  • Want your inner life to exist only in your head or on a screen
  • Don't want to be honest with yourself or your loved ones about who you are and what you desire
  • Avoid the discomfort of self-inquiry
  • Have disrespectful, entitled, or boundary-pushing tendencies
  • Want to stay split or compartmentalized forever
  • Want your sexuality to be something you hide and hide from forever
Apply for your spot

This is only for those who are willing to challenge themselves

Those wanting to go dressed out in public

For an epic weekend in Denver supported by your sisters

Are you ready to feel...

Playful (2)
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I love that I have found this! Massive steps forward taken today.

-Lucy

What You Get

Practical skills, support, and ongoing sisterhood.

Feminine Embodiment Practices

Somatic, movement, and breath-based exercises to strengthen how the feminine lives in your body and guide how she wants to be expressed.

Relational & Intimacy Training

Practical roleplay and communication practices to own desire, set boundaries, negotiate partnerships, and bring presence to sexual and emotional encounters.

Shame Release Work

Heal outdated childhood stories about femininity and dismantle internalized shame so you can clear the path to claiming your feminine self.

Beautification as Ritual

Sacred getting-ready practices—makeup, styling, grooming, and ceremony—that cultivate presence, confidence, and a daily resilience.

Public Outing Practice

Guided outings to rehearse presentation, ease anxiety and safety concerns and anchor feminine expression


Sisterhood Integration

Build intimate relationships with your fellow sisters through reflective practices to deepen belonging, mutual support, and lasting sisterhood.

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Meet Your Guide

Emily has spent over a decade working and studying in the field of sexual health and healing. In her private practice as a Therapeutic Dominatrix she has successfully guided dozens of crossdressers and gender-fluid folks to embrace the richness of their desires.

Her approach is playful, grounded and based in established trauma-informed modalities including:

Clinical Foundation

Master’s degrees in Social Work (MSW) and Public Health (MPH) with a focus on sexual expression, identity, and wellbeing.

Emotional & Somatic Integration

Trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic Experiencing, and Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to support deep emotional awareness, nervous system regulation, and authentic expression.

Conscious Kink & Power Dynamics

Studied with leading teachers including Om Rupani, the Light Dark Institute, and Orpheus Black, bringing a grounded and intentional approach to power, desire, and exploration.

Tantric Sexuality & Embodiment

Trained with John Wineland, Justin Patrick Pierce, and Londin Angel Winters in embodied intimacy, polarity, and sexual energy.

Feminine Expression & Transformation

A lifelong love of fashion, makeup, and adornment, with a deep appreciation for the art of becoming and self-expression.

I’m here to hold you, challenge you, and witness your becoming. (Additional personal bio at the end of the page)

Meet Your Guide

Emily Letts, MSW, MPH
Therapeutic Domme and Coach

Emily has spent over a decade working and studying in the field of sexual health and healing. In her private practice as a Therapeutic Dominatrix she has successfully guided dozens of crossdressers and gender-fluid folks to embrace the richness of their desires.

Her approach is playful, grounded and based in established trauma-informed modalities including:

Clinical Foundation

Master’s degrees in Social Work (MSW) and Public Health (MPH) with a focus on sexual expression, identity, and wellbeing.

Emotional & Somatic Integration

Trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic Experiencing, and Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to support deep emotional awareness, nervous system regulation, and authentic expression.

Conscious Kink & Power Dynamics

Studied with leading teachers including Om Rupani, the Light Dark Institute, and Orpheus Black, bringing a grounded and intentional approach to power, desire, and exploration.

Tantric Sexuality & Embodiment

Trained with John Wineland, Justin Patrick Pierce, and Londin Angel Winters in embodied intimacy, polarity, and sexual energy.

Feminine Expression & Transformation

A lifelong love of fashion, makeup, and adornment, with a deep appreciation for the art of becoming and self-expression.

What's Included

This is a four-month container Intentionally built for depth and play. 

Seven 2-Hour Live Group Calls

Each call will include live feminine‑embodiment practices, group coaching, and peer exercises that build skill, presence, and authentic expression over four months. Calls will be on Tuesdays 3PM PST / 4PM MT / 6PM EST / 10PM GMT Call dates are July 6, July 20, August 10, August 24, September 21, October 5, October 19

4-Day In-Person Denver Retreat

We will gather each day for deep daytime practices for personal growth and embodiment, culminating in two guided evening outings dressed—so you can step out as your liberated self.

Small Group Sister Pods

Each girl will be assigned into a three‑person pod that will stay together for the cohort, meeting every other week to deepen connection, accountability, and intimate peer support.

One 1-1 Personal Coaching Call with Emily

You will receive a focused deep‑dive session to accelerate your growth, tailor practices to your edge, and clarify next steps in your journey.

Community Platform

All participants will have access to a private Circle space to create a profile, share resources and questions, and connect with the cohort through group threads and direct messages.

The Retreat

Meet Your Sisters in Sunny Denver
for A Life-Changing Weekend

September 3-6, 2026

*Times and activities subject to change

Thursday

  • 3PM - 5PM Afternoon Arrival and Hotel Check-In
  • 5PM - 8PM Drop-In and Meet and Greet Dinner Party

Friday

  • 10AM - 1PM Morning Session
  • 1PM - 3PM Lunch Practice with Sister Pods
  • 3PM - 5PM Afternoon Session
  • 5PM - 7PM Dinner and Beautification Ritual
  • 7PM - 10PM Celebratory Outing

Saturday

  • 10AM - 1PM Morning Session
  • 1PM - 3PM Lunch Practice
  • 3PM - 5PM Afternoon Session
  • 5PM - 7PM Dinner
  • 7PM - 8PM Catwalk and Cocktails
  • 8PM - 12AM Celebratory Outing

Sunday

  • 12PM - 2PM Group Drop-In and Harvest
  • 2PM - 4PM Closing Ceremony
  • 5PM Departure

*Travel, food and lodging are not included in tuition

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Your Investment

Outrageously Her is an intimate, high-touch program with seven live calls, and a 4-day in-person Immersion. Participation in all calls, and the live Immersion, are required.

Early Bird

Ends June 1st - 6 Slots available
$3400
$ 2800
  • 4 Months of Group Work
  • Small Group Sister Pods
  • In-Peson Denver Retreat
  • Community Platform
  • 1-1 Deep Dive Coaching Call with Emily
  • Flights, lodging and meals are not included in the price

Payment in Full

$4100
$ 3200
  • 4 Months of Group Work
  • Small Group Sister Pods
  • In-Person Denver Retreat
  • Community Platform
  • 1-1 Deep Dive Coaching Call with Emily
  • Flights, lodging and meals are not included in the price

To reserve your spot, a $750 deposit is required upon acceptance of your application. The remaining balance is due 6 weeks before the first call.

One honest note: If the investment gives you pause, sit with that. The people who get the most from this are usually the ones who had to work a little to say yes — and meant it when they did.

Join the sisterhood

Your Investment

Outrageously Her is an intimate, high-touch program with seven live calls, and a 4-day in-person Immersion. Participation in all calls, and the live Immersion, are required.

Early Bird

Ends June 1st - 6 Slots available
$3400
$ 2800
  • 4 Months of Group Work
  • Small Group Sister Pods
  • In-Peson Denver Retreat
  • Community Platform
  • 1-1 Deep Dive Coaching Call with Emily
  • Flights, lodging and meals are not included in the price

Payment in Full

$4100
$ 3200
  • 4 Months of Group Work
  • Small Group Sister Pods
  • In-Person Denver Retreat
  • Community Platform
  • 1-1 Deep Dive Coaching Call with Emily
  • Flights, lodging and meals are not included in the price

To reserve your spot, a $750 deposit is required upon acceptance of your application. The remaining balance is due 6 weeks before the first call.

One honest note: If the investment gives you pause, sit with that. The people who get the most from this are usually the ones who had to work a little to say yes — and meant it when they did.

You Are Not Alone.

You Are Not Wrong.

The Next Step is simple

Join a community that celebrates all of you – the outfits, the fantasies, the questions, the desires, and the person you’re becoming.

Start Your application

The application will take 10-15 minutes. If accepted, you’ll receive next steps. No commitment until deposit has been paid.

This is the first space where I've felt seen as all of me — not just my femme side, not just my questions, but the whole messy, beautiful exploration. I'm not alone anymore.

-Simone

What You Should Know
Before Applying

Is this private and confidential?

Yes — confidentiality is a fundamental piece of this container and taken very seriously. So while we need full transparency within the container in order to create an intimate space, we take many measurements to support your feeling of security outside of the container. 

Measurements we take:

  • We will not share your personal information with anyone outside of the container

  • We will not share any photo or video of your face without explicit written permission

  • Billing for the cohort will show up as “OH Services” on your credit card

  • We allow for CashApp payments for further discretion

We ask all participants to agree to:

  • No sharing names, images, or personal stories outside the group

  • Respect each other’s privacy at all times. Do not download, screenshot, or otherwise capture other participants’ information.

  • Move with care and discretion when interacting with other participants.

Additionally, if confidentiality is a major concern, we suggest you do the following:

  • For your enrollment process, create a Proton e-mail account, which is highly secured, or some other secondary email, if you have not done so already. 

  • Pay your fee with a credit card where you have control over who will see the billing.


With all that in mind, this is a group experience and part of the work is gaining comfort in being seen by your fellow participants. We also will be going dressed out in public during the retreat. We understand this is an edge for some, which is why we have built the cohort around the experience to create as much support as possible.

  • Yes – we are here to build deep community through real connection

  • The calls will be recorded, but will only ever be available to fellow participants.  The call recordings will be deleted 30 days after the close of the container

No, you will always have a choice in this.  However, the calls will be designed and sequenced to increase your comfort and sense of safety to where you will be able to be fully dressed on the calls and at the in-person retreat.

This is a live, relational experience, and the depth of the work comes from being part of the community. The expectation is that participants will prioritize attendance and will make every effort to be on all the calls.

Calls will be recorded and shared with the group if for some reason a participant truly cannot make it.

We expect there will be around 16-20 participants from around the world, all of whom have:

  • Some level of self-awareness and personal growth experience

  • A genuine desire to explore their feminine more deeply

  • A willingness to be in community and not do this alone

This is a carefully curated and exclusive group

This community is carefully curated to create a group field that will support everyone in their liberation.  To ensure the best community there is a defined process to build the cohort

  • First the application is submitted which includes a photo of yourself (in male or femme clothes)

     

  • If the application is approved, you will receive a link to book a short interview video call with Emily. Please come in whatever state of dress you live the majority of your life in.

     

  • On the call we will explore your journey so far and your desires for  your future.

     

  • After the call, I will make the decision. If you are accepted into the group you will receive a link for payment and to join the cohort.

     

  • A $750 deposit is required upon acceptance to reserve your spot. The remaining balance is due 6 weeks before the first call.

  • Once full payment is made, you will have full access to the community platform, and you can begin your journey!

     

  • The first call will take place July 6th.
  • The platform is built on Circle, a product designed for creating specialized communities

  • The platform allows you to create a profile that is completely separated and isolated from any other social media presence you may have

  • It also restricts access to your profile or any of your posts to only your fellow participants. Nothing inside the community is searchable by Google, ChatGPT, or any other search tools.

  • All the calls and call recordings are hosted within the community which assures they will be private and only accessible by your fellow participants.

 You will be placed in a small group with 2-3 other participants. You can think of your pod as accountability buddies. In you pod you will:

  • Have a dedicated space in the online community
  • Two times per month you will meet privately with your pods for an informal check-in

  • You don’t need formal credentials — but you do need:

    • Some self-awareness and experience reflecting on yourself

    • A basic ability to communicate your feelings

    • A willingness to take responsibility for your growth

    This is designed to be a deeper dive, and all participants must be committed to play full-out in the container.

This is a sex-positive space, but not an explicit one.

We will explore:

  • Desire
  • Eroticism
  • Identity
  • Expression
  • Growth

But this is not a space for explicit content, fantasy fulfillment, or purely sexual interaction.

While everyone’s journey is different, many participants experience:

  • A deeper connection to their feminine

  • Increased confidence being seen in all ways

  • Improved competency and enjoyment in dressing

  • More honesty in relationships

  • Less shame and secrecy

  • A sense of belonging and community


All of this will support you in becoming more fully yourself.

You will be strongly encouraged, but you will always have a choice. This is one of the most powerful parts of the experience, to be seen in the world with support, community, and intention. We will support you to have the fullest experience you are capable of. 

Your investment covers:

  • Seven live calls

  • Administrative support organizing your Sister Pods

  • The full 4-month container

  • 4 day retreat experience

  • Access to the private community

  • A 1-1 Deep Dive with Emily

You are responsible for retreat costs including:

  • Travel to San Francisco

  • Lodging

  • Meals

  • Personal expenses during the retreat

The $750 deposit is non-refundable. Your payment(s) beyond the deposit are non-refundable. If you need to cancel and your spot can be filled from the waitlist, you may receive a refund minus the deposit. Please apply only if you are prepared to fully commit.

That’s exactly why there’s an application process.  We’ll get to know each other and figure that out together.  

This space is for people who feel:  “Something in me is ready for more.”

You don’t need to have it all figured out  but you do need to be willing to show up, reflect, and engage.

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