Outrageously Her

For Men Who Want More…

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Soul Kink

Soul Kink

A 4-Month Journey Into Brotherhood, Sisterhood and
Relational Depth

This is a group for men who want to learn how to express all parts of themselves in their partnerships and their lives. They want to deepen their relationship with their own feminine, and sexuality while fortifying the life they’ve already built.

Through this 4-month virtual cohort you’ll cultivate playfulness, authenticity, and grounded confidence while learning the skills to negotiate intimacy with mastery.

You’ll do this alongside a group of peers, learning how to build authentic connections with other men who also are exploring their feminine.

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This isn’t about leaving your life behind, its about finally fully inhabiting it.

An Invitation From Emily



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Society doesn’t make space for Men to explore their feminine.






We need a world that accepts all parts of you


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It is so absolutely stunning and amazing to really feel myself as Veronica. Was absolutely the best time I have had in a very long time.

-Veronica


The Curriculum

Week 1 

Opening Ceremony

July 28th
Week 2

Desire Mapping

August 11th
Week 3

Healing The
Masculine Archetype

August 25th
Week 4

Feminine Embodiment and Reclaiming

September 8th
Week 5

Conscious Relating for Crossdressers

September 22nd
Week 6

Kink, Taboo and Sissification

October 6th
Week 7

Makeover Party!

October 20th
Week 8

Closing Ceremony

November 3rd

*Travel, food and lodging are not included in tuition


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What if Your feminine wasn’t something to hide?

But was your guide to:

IS THIS FOR YOU?

THIS SPACE IS FOR YOU
IF yOU:

This Space is NOT for you if YOU:


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IS THIS FOR YOU?

THIS SPACE IS FOR YOU
IF yOU:

This Space is NOT for you if YOU:


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This is only for those who are willing to challenge themselves

For those who are willing to celebrate themselves

For those willing to want MORE from their life

Are you ready to feel…

Playful (2)

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I love that I have found this! Massive steps forward taken.

-Lucy

What You Get

Practical skills, support, and ongoing sisterhood.

Feminine Embodiment Practices

Somatic, movement, and breath-based exercises to strengthen how the feminine lives in your body and guide how she wants to be expressed.

Relational & Intimacy Training

Practical roleplay and communication practices to own desire, set boundaries, negotiate partnerships, and bring presence to sexual and emotional encounters.

Shame Release Work

Heal outdated childhood stories about femininity and dismantle internalized shame so you can clear the path to claiming your feminine self.

Beautification as Ritual

Sacred getting-ready practices—makeup, styling, grooming, and ceremony—that cultivate presence, confidence, and a daily resilience.

Sisterhood Integration

Build intimate relationships with your fellow travelers through reflective practices to deepen belonging, mutual support, and lasting connection.


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Meet Your Guide

Emily has spent over a decade working and studying in the field of sexual health and healing. In her private practice as a Therapeutic Dominatrix she has successfully guided dozens of crossdressers and gender-fluid folks to embrace the richness of their desires.

Her approach is playful, grounded and based in established trauma-informed modalities including:

Clinical Foundation

Master’s degrees in Social Work (MSW) and Public Health (MPH) with a focus on sexual expression, identity, and wellbeing.

Emotional & Somatic Integration

Trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic Experiencing, and Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to support deep emotional awareness, nervous system regulation, and authentic expression.

Conscious Kink & Power Dynamics

Studied with leading teachers including Om Rupani, the Light Dark Institute, and Orpheus Black, bringing a grounded and intentional approach to power, desire, and exploration.

Tantric Sexuality & Embodiment

Trained with John Wineland, Justin Patrick Pierce, and Londin Angel Winters in embodied intimacy, polarity, and sexual energy.

Feminine Expression & Transformation

A lifelong love of fashion, makeup, and adornment, with a deep appreciation for the art of becoming and self-expression.

I’m here to hold you, challenge you, and witness your becoming. (Additional personal bio at the end of the page)

Meet Your Guide

Emily Letts, MSW, MPH
Therapeutic Domme and Coach

Emily has spent over a decade working and studying in the field of sexual health and healing. In her private practice as a Therapeutic Dominatrix she has successfully guided dozens of crossdressers and gender-fluid folks to embrace the richness of their desires.

Her approach is playful, grounded and based in established trauma-informed modalities including:

Clinical Foundation

Master’s degrees in Social Work (MSW) and Public Health (MPH) with a focus on sexual expression, identity, and wellbeing.

Emotional & Somatic Integration

Trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic Experiencing, and Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to support deep emotional awareness, nervous system regulation, and authentic expression.

Conscious Kink & Power Dynamics

Studied with leading teachers including Om Rupani, the Light Dark Institute, and Orpheus Black, bringing a grounded and intentional approach to power, desire, and exploration.

Tantric Sexuality & Embodiment

Trained with John Wineland, Justin Patrick Pierce, and Londin Angel Winters in embodied intimacy, polarity, and sexual energy.

Feminine Expression & Transformation

A lifelong love of fashion, makeup, and adornment, with a deep appreciation for the art of becoming and self-expression.

What’s Included

This is a four-month container Intentionally built for depth and play. 

Eight Live Group Calls

Each call will include live embodiment practices, group coaching, and peer exercises that build skill, presence, and authentic expression over four months. If you need to miss a week or two – no problem! Just keep in touch with us via the private group messaging app.
Calls will be on Tuesdays 2PM PST / 3PM MT / 5PM EST / 11PM BST

Pre-Recorded Video Library

Each week we will explore a new topic through pre-recorded content to prepare us for that week’s live call. Watch this whenever your schedule allows!

Small Group Sister Pods

Each participant will be assigned into a three‑person pod that will stay together for the cohort, meeting every other week to deepen connection, accountability, and intimate peer support.

One 1-1 Personal Coaching Call with Emily

You will receive a focused deep‑dive session to accelerate your growth, tailor practices to your edge, and clarify next steps in your journey.

Private Group Messaging

All participants will have access to a private Circle space to create a profile, share resources and questions, and connect with the cohort through group threads and private direct messages.

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Your Investment

Outrageously Her is an intimate, high-touch program with eight live calls. Participation in all calls is required.

FULL PRICE

After July 4
$
2200

FLASH SALE

Till July 4th
$
835

Limited
Time Offer

To reserve your spot, a $300 deposit is required upon acceptance of your application. The remaining balance is due 1 week before the first call.

One honest note: If the investment gives you pause, sit with that. The people who get the most from this are usually the ones who had to work a little to say yes — and meant it when they did.

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Your Investment

Outrageously Her is an intimate, high-touch program with eight live calls, as well as Sister pods. Participation in most calls is required.

FULL PRICE

$
2088

FINAL WEEK
SALE

Application closes July 25th
$2088
$
1688

LIMITED
Time Offer

To reserve your spot, a $300 deposit is required. Once received a short introductory call will be schedule with Emily.

One honest note: If the investment gives you pause, sit with that. The people who get the most from this are usually the ones who had to work a little to say yes — and meant it when they did.

You Are Not Alone.

You Are Not Wrong.

The Next Step is simple

Join a community that celebrates all of you – the outfits, the fantasies, the questions, the desires, and the person you’re becoming.


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The application will take 10-15 minutes. If accepted, you’ll receive next steps. No commitment until deposit has been paid.

This is the first space where I’ve felt seen as all of me — not just my femme side, not just my questions, but the whole messy, beautiful exploration. I’m not alone anymore.

-Simone

What You Should Know
Before Applying

Is this private and confidential?

Yes — confidentiality is a fundamental piece of this container and taken very seriously. So while we need full transparency within the container in order to create an intimate space, we take many measurements to support your feeling of security outside of the container. 

Measurements we take:

  • We will not share your personal information with anyone outside of the container
  • We will not share any photo or video of your face without explicit written permission
  • Billing for the cohort will show up as “OH Services” on your credit card
  • We allow for CashApp payments for further discretion

We ask all participants to agree to:

  • No sharing names, images, or personal stories outside the group
  • Respect each other’s privacy at all times. Do not download, screenshot, or otherwise capture other participants’ information.
  • Move with care and discretion when interacting with other participants.

Additionally, if confidentiality is a major concern, we suggest you do the following:

  • For your enrollment process, create a Proton e-mail account, which is highly secured, or some other secondary email, if you have not done so already. 
  • Pay your fee with a credit card where you have control over who will see the billing.

With all that in mind, this is a group experience and part of the work is gaining comfort in being seen by your fellow participants.

  • Yes – we are here to build deep community through real connection
  • The calls will be recorded, but will only ever be available to fellow participants.  The call recordings will be deleted 30 days after the close of the container

No, you will always have a choice in this.  However, the calls will be designed and sequenced to increase your comfort and sense of safety to where you will be able to be fully dressed on the calls.

This is a live, relational experience, and the depth of the work comes from being part of the community. The expectation is that participants will prioritize attendance and will make every effort to be on all the calls.

Calls will be recorded and shared with the group if for some reason a participant truly cannot make it.

All participants will be those whom have:

  • Some level of self-awareness and personal growth experience

     

  • A genuine desire to explore their feminine more deeply

     

  • A willingness to be in community and not do this alone

     

This is a carefully curated and exclusive group

This community is carefully curated to create a group field that will support everyone in their liberation.  To ensure the best community, there is a defined process to build the cohort

  • First the application is submitted 
  • If the application is approved, you will receive a link to book a short interview video call with Emily. Please come in whatever state of dress you live the majority of your life in.
  • On the call we will explore your journey so far and your desires for  your future.
  • After the call, I will make the decision. If you are accepted into the group you will receive a link for payment and to join the cohort.
  • A $300 deposit is required upon acceptance to reserve your spot. The remaining balance is due 1 week before the first call.
  • Once full payment is made, you will have full access to the community platform, and you can begin your journey!
  • The first call will take place July 28th.
  • The platform is built on Circle, a product designed for creating specialized communities
  • The platform allows you to create a profile that is completely separated and isolated from any other social media presence you may have
  • It also restricts access to your profile or any of your posts to only your fellow participants. Nothing inside the community is searchable by Google, ChatGPT, or any other search tools.
  • All the calls and call recordings are hosted within the community which assures they will be private and only accessible by your fellow participants.

 You will be placed in a small group with 2-3 other participants. You can think of your pod as accountability buddies. In you pod you will:

  • Have a dedicated space in the online community
  • At least once per month you will meet privately with your pods for an informal virtual check-in

  • You don’t need formal credentials — but you do need:

    • Some self-awareness and experience reflecting on yourself
    • A basic ability to communicate your feelings
    • A willingness to take responsibility for your growth

    This is designed to be a deeper dive, and all participants must be committed to play full-out in the container.

This is a sex-positive space, but not an explicit one.

We will explore:

  • Desire
  • Eroticism
  • Identity
  • Expression
  • Growth

But this is not a space for explicit content, fantasy fulfillment, or purely sexual interaction.

While everyone’s journey is different, many participants experience:

  • A deeper connection to their feminine
  • Increased confidence being seen in all ways
  • Improved competency and enjoyment in dressing
  • More honesty in relationships
  • Less shame and secrecy
  • A sense of belonging and community

All of this will support you in becoming more fully yourself.

Your investment covers:

  • Eight live calls

     

  • Pre-recorded video library
  • Administrative support organizing your Sister Pods
  • The full 4-month container
  • Access to the private community
  • A 1-1 Deep Dive with Emily

The $300 deposit is non-refundable. Your payment(s) beyond the deposit are non-refundable. If you need to cancel and your spot can be filled from the waitlist, you may receive a refund minus the deposit. Please apply only if you are prepared to fully commit.

That’s exactly why there’s an application process.  We’ll get to know each other and figure that out together.  

This space is for people who feel:  “Something in me is ready for more.”

You don’t need to have it all figured out  but you do need to be willing to show up, reflect, and engage.

Yes — confidentiality is a fundamental piece of this container and taken very seriously. So while we need full transparency within the container in order to create an intimate space, we take many measurements to support your feeling of security outside of the container. 

Measurements we take:

We ask all participants to agree to:

Additionally, if confidentiality is a major concern, we suggest you do the following:

With all that in mind, this is a group experience and part of the work is gaining comfort in being seen by your fellow participants.

No, you will always have a choice in this.  However, the calls will be designed and sequenced to increase your comfort and sense of safety to where you will be able to be fully dressed on the calls.

This is a live, relational experience, and the depth of the work comes from being part of the community. The expectation is that participants will prioritize attendance and will make every effort to be on all the calls.

Calls will be recorded and shared with the group if for some reason a participant truly cannot make it.

All participants will be those whom have:

This is a carefully curated and exclusive group

This community is carefully curated to create a group field that will support everyone in their liberation.  To ensure the best community, there is a defined process to build the cohort

 You will be placed in a small group with 2-3 other participants. You can think of your pod as accountability buddies. In you pod you will:

This is a sex-positive space, but not an explicit one.

We will explore:

But this is not a space for explicit content, fantasy fulfillment, or purely sexual interaction.

While everyone’s journey is different, many participants experience:

All of this will support you in becoming more fully yourself.

Your investment covers:

The $300 deposit is non-refundable. Your payment(s) beyond the deposit are non-refundable. If you need to cancel and your spot can be filled from the waitlist, you may receive a refund minus the deposit. Please apply only if you are prepared to fully commit.

That’s exactly why there’s an application process.  We’ll get to know each other and figure that out together.  

This space is for people who feel:  “Something in me is ready for more.”

You don’t need to have it all figured out  but you do need to be willing to show up, reflect, and engage.

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