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You can expect
For both online and in-person work
Exploring relational power dynamics and hierarchy (aka Dominance/Submission) as well as other archetypes as tools to play with and rewire patterns
Cracking open the parts that have kept you stuck in the same pattern loops
A firm hand when you need grounding and structure
Rituals of release, grounding and/or affirmation
Intimate exploration of your relationship with your sexuality
What Might this work include?
Attuned witnessing as you touch long-held grief, fear or shame
Safe containment when you unravel and a pathway for reconstruction
Somatic tools to quiet the mind and center the body
Nonjudgemental presence in the face of your truth
Moments of joy, playfulness and liberation on your journey of self discovery
I get that being on my website can bring up a LOT
Know that it’s a normal first step in your journey.
Whether we work together or not, you’re on your way.
One-Time Discounted
Initiation Session
This is the beginning. Where I take your hand as we stand on the cliff of your life. We won't jump, but just gaze out over the vista, surveying the landscape of what is before us.
This discounted introductory virtual session is the first step for all new clients. Together we'll illuminate the shame, patterns and hidden desires shaping your erotic self - not to dive deep yet, but to map out the terrain. It's a powerful opening, a chance to finally see yourself clearly before deciding if you'd like to step into the full transformation of my month-long containers. This is a virtual session. To learn more about what an introductory session may look like, check out The Soul Kink Therapy Podcast, launching September 26th.
$295
Virtual Packages
In each 90-minute session, we meet and explore your inner parts using Internal Family Systems (IFS), then bring them into embodied practice through role-play, power dynamics and psychological kink. This is a potent rewiring process that dismantles shame, awakens authentic desire and opens the path to deeper liberation and pleasure. These sessions can be extremely intimate, playful, thought-provoking, insightful, confronting and inspiring. Be prepared to lay down any of your pre-conceived notions to journey with an open mind and open heart.
Because this work builds on itself exponentially, there is a minimum of four sessions in a package and are billed in quantities of four. Virtual packages also include voice-messaging to support between-session integration.
In-Person Packages
In-person packages are perfect for individuals or couples who want to explore transformation through embodied, experiential play. Together, we move beyond dialogue into the body - working with energetic touch, pain, and pleasure, impact play, restraints and scene-based exploration. These sessions weave Internal Family Systems (IFS) with conscious kink to rewire patterns of shame and open new pathways for receiving, giving and authentic pleasure. In these sessions our work is to meet the moment with sacred presence. Within the boundaries set, everything is fair game as dance between your different parts, their desires and what is needed to crack open.
Because this work builds on itself exponentially, there is a minimum of four sessions in a package and are billed in quantities of four. This package also includes voice-messaging for between-session integration support.
In-Person Package
In-person packages are perfect for individuals or couples who want to explore transformation through embodied, experiential play. Together, we move beyond dialogue into the body - working with energetic touch, pain, and pleasure, impact play, restraints and scene-based exploration. These sessions weave Internal Family Systems (IFS) with conscious kink to rewire patterns of shame and open new pathways for receiving, giving and authentic pleasure. In these sessions our work is to meet the moment with sacred presence. Within the boundaries set, everything is fair game as dance between your different parts, their desires and what is needed to crack open.
Because this work builds on itself exponentially, there is a minimum of four sessions in a package and are billed in quantities of four. This package also includes voice-messaging for between-session integration support.
Weekend Intensives
Ready to dance on a WHOLE NOTHER LEVEL? This is a 2.5 day Odyssey starting from exactly where you are at. The weekend is combined with three pre-intensive virtual sessions and a virtual integration session. Perfect for those who are from out of town and are ready to go hard and fast.
Common Questions
Session Descriptions
Each session is 1.5 hours.
So glad you asked this question!
NO!
An important part of this work is learning how to meet the moment. I work with power dynamics like Domme and Submissive roles yes, but I also am a big form of free form play, which is where we explore what dynamic is needed based on what is present. Sometimes I may be in the Domme role, sometimes YOU MAY be in the Dom(me) role. It all depends on what we find. Sometimes we will be moving around the entire session, sometimes we will be seated and talking the entire session. Sometimes we will be doing traditional kink scenes and sometimes a while session may be exploring Internal Family Systems.
The point is…release your expectations. That is how we pinpoint how your pleasure works and how we bring you into a deeply present state of being.
No. We may evoke your erotic energy and explore your body’s erotic sensations and fantasy, but there will be no exchange genital or anal touch.
My dungeon is in North Boulder, CO.
Your session will take place in a quiet room, furnished specifically for this work and designed to minimize distractions. If and when possible, it is best to bring or wear comfortable clothes.
Then I am not the right practitioner for you. There are MANY very skilled Dominatrixes and Kink practitioners listed on various sites who could support you.
My work is about letting go of expectations so we can meet the moment with exactly what is needed for your most complete transformation.
It is completely normal to feel nervous. Your feelings are completely valid. You are moving into a space of discovery.
The first and most important aspect of our work together is to establish a sense of safety and trust. Once this is built, just like a therapy session, I will gather information based on your history and what you are experiencing. Then I will introduce aspects of play into the session. The most important thing to know that these sessions are a safe and strong container for your to release into.
Enrollment Process
Step 1: Fill out the contact form for an introductory session.
Step 2: Immediately after your submit the form, you will be redirected to make your payment and schedule the call.
Step 3: You will receive a confirmation email with a zoom link.
Step 1: Fill out the contact form for an introductory session. All new clients must complete this session before deeper work together is considered.
Step 2: Immediately after your submit the form, you will be redirected to make your payment and schedule the call.
Step 3: You will receive a confirmation email with a zoom link.
Step 4: In the Intro session, if it feels appropriate we will explore if we may be a good fit to work together on a deeper level. If this is true, the call may run over by 15 minutes.
Step 5: If we decide to move forward, payment will be collected, and our first session will be scheduled.
Step 6: To confirm your first session in a package you will need to complete an in-depth intake form as well as sign my terms and conditions.
Pricing and Packages
Unfortunately no, there are no refunds.
All payments must be made up front. I realize this can present challenges to some individuals. A few of my clients have had to wait a couple of months so they may save up for our container. There may also be ways to adjust the container an experience that is still impactful while meeting your budgeting needs.
Please understand this is in an effort to create stability and sustainability in my business.
I take cashapp, venmo and credit card.
No they are not. Any practitioner that works in the erotic space, especially in the BDSM space, whether there is genital touch or not will be charging more than a traditional therapist.
I offer one-time discounted introductory sessions for new clients. These sessions are one hour to one hour and fifteen minutes and priced at $295. In this session we will explore what you are experiencing and dive into what needs to be brought to light.
This session are for those who want to explore what it might be to work together in a deeper way or for those who simply want a one-time cracking open. These initial sessions are quite powerful but are the first step in a much deeper journey.
Besides the 90-minute sessions, a crucial part of our process will be the integration between sessions. Taking what we discover and implementing it into your ever day life is what it is all about.
Therefore, I use the voice messaging platform, Signal, to stay in touch on the day to day. I require my clients to send me updates throughout the week with celebrations, insights, questions and challenges. This helps us both stay focused and deepen so that we can accelerate progress when we are in session.
This is very unlikely to happen. However, if I feel a client unwilling to show up fully to sessions and committed to the integration process, it will be the topic of discussion. After multiple attempts, I will end a container.
I understand that life happens, however, by signing up with me you are making a commitment to both of us. I am making that same commitment. When I don’t feel my commitment being met, it becomes a drain on my energy, which is too expensive for me to continue with. This is my boundary.
Another reason is if I feel either one of us is in any sort of danger because of the sessions.
Additional Questions
I am not an expert in mental health conditions like a psychiatrist might be. I will be very honest if I might not be the best practitioner for you. However, I have found that this work, the embodiment of hierarchical power dynamics and free form play, can be profoundly transformational across the board.
No, I am not a licensed therapist. Licensed therapists are not allowed to touch their clients, therefore I have elected to forego licensure.
I have a masters in social work and public health and have trained in multiple types of healing. I conduct therapeutic healing sessions and use aspects of modalities you may encounter in more traditional therapy such as Internal Family Systems and Compassionate Inquiry.